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16 Oct 09   Threads on Consent in O&P

I've started this week's O&P threads (about Consent) on the O&P groups on IC, on Fetlife, and on TSR. I'm now halfway through these threads about the ten O&P keywords [more...]

14 Oct 09   Houses in O&P

Last week's Houses thread on IC had some good responses, and highlighted some of the points I need to clarify in future (eg that a household can equally well be mono or poly.) [more...]

3 Oct 09   Structure in O&P discussion threads

This week I've started threads about "Structure in O&P", on the O&P groups on IC and on Fetlife.

22 Sep 09   Rituals threads on O&P groups

I've started another couple of threads, this time about Rituals, on the O&P groups on IC and on Fetlife, and on TSR. [more...]

17 Sep 09   O&P groups on IC and Fetlife

I've created O&P (Ownership&Possession) groups on Informed Consent in the UK and on Fetlife. To get them going, I'm starting threads on these groups about each of the ten keywords on the O&P Manifesto, starting with Authenticity.

3 Sep 09   Ownership & Possession (O&P) Manifesto

I've decided to try to express my beliefs about M/s and D/s, using the possession, property, and ownership framework that I've started talking about this year. I'm calling this structure "Ownership & Possession" or "O&P", so I have a shorthand for referring to it. The O&P Manifesto lists its ten main concepts.

24 Aug 09   Jack McGeorge has died

Jack McGeorge - master, BDSM organiser, US Marine, Iraq UN WMD investigator, and much more - died last week after heart surgery. [more...]

17 Feb 09   Possession and the Hyphenated Slave

What does "slave" mean? Is there only one type of slave? Is possession the same as ownership? [more...]

30 Oct 08   Changes

I've never been one to post blow by blow commentaries of my relationships as they happen, and that's especially true when things are coming to a conclusion. But I think it's time to spell out how things are now. The short version is that I uncollared both lili and popi, and they have now both moved out. The rest of this post is the slightly longer version. [more...]

16 Jan 08   The Desire for Purpose

Recently I've got interested in general motivations: what is the most general framework for why people do things? Are people following specific drives imposed by evolution, or is there some universal, such as Nietzsche's claim that everyone's motivation is The Will to Power. But how can that be true in a world with consensual submissives? [more...]

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