Threads on Service in O&P

Posted by Tanos on Sat 28 Nov 09, 9:37 PM

I've started threads on "Service in O&P" in the O&P groups on Informed Consent, on TSR, and on Fetlife.

For reference, here is the OP of these threads:

Tanos wrote: Being served is one of the principal reasons why owners and dominants invest their time in establishing O&P relationships. Service is not limited to the stereotype of domestic work plus sexual use, but can also include companionship, acting as a social secretary, managing accounts, improving the house, and learning new skills. Service reinforces the difference in status between servant and master, and provides opportunities to overcome feelings of false entitlement and misplaced pride. And yet good service is also something to take pride in providing, and a submissive who serves well is someone to be proud of. How do you see service in the relationship you're in or seeking?