|1 Jan 10 Those in between stages|
|One of the things that's attractive about O&P relationships is the clarity about where you stand and who's in charge. I've started a thread on the O&P group on IC asking about dealing with the transitions involved in moving from meeting as equals all the way to the dominant being in possession of the submissive. A lot of these stages are questions of consent: fundamentally, the sub consenting to allow the dom to do XYZ whenever they want, from then on. [more...]|
|11 Dec 09 Training - not just learning their preferences?|
|The word "training" is used in different ways in O&P relationships (or M/s, D/s etc): I think there's a divide between "training someone up", as an apprentice carpenter might be trained up and then qualify; and ongoing training, as sportsmen talk about when they've been ill and not able to "keep up with their training". [more...]|
|7 Dec 09 O&P Manifesto, v2|
|Today I uploaded a revised (and hopefully final!) version of the O&P Manifesto, taking into account the feedback I've had from the threads I've been starting each week covering the ten keywords in the manifesto. [more...]|
|4 Dec 09 Ownership in O&P|
|Today I've posted threads about Ownership on the O&P groups on on Informed Consent, on TSR, and on Fetlife. [more...]|
|28 Nov 09 Threads on Service in O&P|
|I've started threads on "Service in O&P" in the O&P groups on Informed Consent, on TSR, and on Fetlife. [more...]|
|17 Nov 09 Responsibility in O&P|
|I've now posted last week's (delayed) threads about Responsibility on the O&P groups on Informed Consent, on The Slave Register, and on Fetlife. [more...]|
|15 Nov 09 IE and Dependence|
|that_girl_emme started an interesting discussion about dependency on the IE group on Fetlife.|
|5 Nov 09 O&P threads on Possession|
|This week I've started threads about Possession itself on the O&P groups on Informed Consent, on The Slave Register, and on Fetlife. [more...]|
|30 Oct 09 Threads on Dignity in O&P|
|I've started threads on Dignity on the various O&P groups this week: on IC, on TSR and on Fetlife. [more...]|
|26 Oct 09 New O&P blog design|
|I've redesigned the O&P website, to be more blog-like and match the design I used for O_and_P on Twitter. There's also now space for the short intro to appear on every page (in the right column.)|
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