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1 Jan 10   Those in between stages
One of the things that's attractive about O&P relationships is the clarity about where you stand and who's in charge. I've started a thread on the O&P group on IC asking about dealing with the transitions involved in moving from meeting as equals all the way to the dominant being in possession of the submissive. A lot of these stages are questions of consent: fundamentally, the sub consenting to allow the dom to do XYZ whenever they want, from then on. [more...]
11 Dec 09   Training - not just learning their preferences?
The word "training" is used in different ways in O&P relationships (or M/s, D/s etc): I think there's a divide between "training someone up", as an apprentice carpenter might be trained up and then qualify; and ongoing training, as sportsmen talk about when they've been ill and not able to "keep up with their training". [more...]
7 Dec 09   O&P Manifesto, v2
Today I uploaded a revised (and hopefully final!) version of the O&P Manifesto, taking into account the feedback I've had from the threads I've been starting each week covering the ten keywords in the manifesto. [more...]
4 Dec 09   Ownership in O&P
Today I've posted threads about Ownership on the O&P groups on on Informed Consent, on TSR, and on Fetlife. [more...]
28 Nov 09   Threads on Service in O&P
I've started threads on "Service in O&P" in the O&P groups on Informed Consent, on TSR, and on Fetlife. [more...]
17 Nov 09   Responsibility in O&P
I've now posted last week's (delayed) threads about Responsibility on the O&P groups on Informed Consent, on The Slave Register, and on Fetlife. [more...]
15 Nov 09   IE and Dependence
that_girl_emme started an interesting discussion about dependency on the IE group on Fetlife.
5 Nov 09   O&P threads on Possession
This week I've started threads about Possession itself on the O&P groups on Informed Consent, on The Slave Register, and on Fetlife. [more...]
30 Oct 09   Threads on Dignity in O&P
I've started threads on Dignity on the various O&P groups this week: on IC, on TSR and on Fetlife. [more...]
26 Oct 09   New O&P blog design
I've redesigned the O&P website, to be more blog-like and match the design I used for O_and_P on Twitter. There's also now space for the short intro to appear on every page (in the right column.)

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